Runsing!Pinangan itu harus diterima atau ditolak?

Konflik dalaman melanda!haha.

Saya menghubungi mama nun jauh di perantauan. "Mama, ada orang datang meminang x?" Mama terkesima mendengar pertanyaan puterinya. "Tak2 mimpi ada orang meminang" saya menjawab. Mama melayan repekan saya di pagi hari. Saya bercerita dengan girangnya ada doktor datang meminang mama, jiran kita! Mama ketawa mendengar kisah anak gadisnya.Hehe. Beliau bertanya siapakah dia? Sudah berpunyakah? Jika ada datang lah rumah, mama bersungguh ingin melihat.Hehe.

Lalu beliau berkata minta lah pada Allah agar dijodohkan dengan yang orang yang baik, yang memenuhi criteria yang diinginkan! Hati kecil ini berdetik. Ya Allah jika dia yang terbaik untukku maka Kau tetapkanlah hati kami, satukan lah hati kami dengan ikatan yang sah. Jadikan cinta ini, cinta yang membawa kecintaan kepada-Mu Ya Allah! Perkenanlah Ya Allah. Mudah-mudahan ianya begitu, kecil tapi signifikan! Teruslah berdoa dia pasti mendengar! Mama meneruskan bicara. Semoga Allah perkenankan!Hehe. Untuk si empunya diri, you know who you are.:D

Love,
Johor,
Malaysia.

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24 jam!





Satu masa yang sungguh singkat! Alahai rindunya bersama mereka!

Saya ke UIA Gombak tanpa sebarang perancangan rapi. Meredah hiruk pikuk kota bersendirian menaiki tren, akhirnya tiba di station Gombak. Sedang berdiri menunggu Fatimah saya ternampak seorang buta. Saya memberikan laluan lalu menyuarakan pendapat "Timah, cepat la tolong kesian dia!". Beliau menjawab "Nak tolong tapi bukan mahram camane?". Alasan demi alasan diberi saya tidak berganjak melihat beliau bergerak sendiri. Tidak pula terjatuh melalui jalan bertangga! Hati kecil ini berdetik Ya Allah sungguh Engkau maha berkuasa! Saya yang celik ini kadang2 terjatuh juga. Lalu saya berfikir barangkali itu yang dikatakan Allah tidak akan menguji hamba-Nya dengan beban yang tidak termampu olehnya.

Puas bergelak ketawa di cafeteria UIA bersama Aminah, Fatimah dan Nadiah. Alahai rindunya zaman sekolah! Terbayang-bayang keseronokan berkahwin melihat ex-classmate saya di sekolah telah berkahwin. Kami bertiga kecuali Aminah berangan-angan untuk dibelai, ditepekkan bedak, dilapkan muka. Hehehe. Alahai pemikiran kanak-kanak pramatang! Keseronokan semata. Saya katakan kepada mereka "kat Segamat aku tak gelak camni korang." Terbahak-bahak mereka ketawa mengatakan saya hipokrit! Barangkali mungkin faktor envi tapi haruslah positive! Ya Allah permudahkanlah urusanku..

Keesokannya hari kami ke SOGO! Bersesuaian dengan tagline SOGO 'A Cut Above The Rest' kami ber'shopping' sakan. Puas di SOGO berjalan di Jln TAR. Pulang ke rumah kaki saya rasakan kaki seperti mahu tercabut ketika solat. Barangkali begitulah skru yang tidak diberi pelincir! Berkarat! Begitulah ibarat kaki saya yang malas 'exercise'.Hehe.

Gambar bakal diupload kemudian!:D

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shud i?T_T

kembali ke tanah gersang!!!errggghhhhhh:'(

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how muslims dress?

Allah makes a natural covering for all His creatures but not for His best creation: the human being. Instead, Allah tells us why and how we should clothe ourselves. Then Allah leaves us to choose whether to obey.

True Muslims always choose to obey Allah's commands.

The Noble Qur'an says:

“O children of Adam! We have sent clothing to you to cover the shameful parts of your body and to serve as a protection and decoration; but the best clothing is the clothing of piety” [7:26]


WHY COVER?

In Islam, dress has 4 functions.

1. COVERING

Dress conceals the private parts of the body that are called 'aurah in Islam. Muslims do not expose what Allah commands to be kept private. Allah forbids nudity.

2. PROTECTION

"And (Allah) has made garments to protect you from the heat (and cold)... " [16:81]

Dress protects the body from the weather; or heat, cold, wind and rain.

People living in desert region cover their heads and faces to prevent sand carrying living microorganisms entering their ears, noses, eyes and mouths.

3. ADORNMENT

Dress is worn to adorn and beautify the human personality, bestowing on it dignity.

Allah is Beautiful and He loves beauty.[Sahih Muslim]

4. MORAL FUNCTION

Islamic dress helps safeguard the modesty and decency of a person and the moral ideal of society, where sex is permitted only in marriage.

There is a deep impact which outer modesty makes on inner spiritual well-being. Also, inner spirituality is reflected on one's appearance.

In Islam, both men and women should be custodians of the morality and society.

What Allah says in the Noble Qur'an :

-Modesty of Men

"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do."[24:30]


-Modesty of women and their dress in public

"And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments (in public) beyond what may decently be apparent. Hence, let them draw their head-coverings over their bosoms. And let them not display (more of) their charms to any but their husbands, or their father,..."[24:31]

-Protection for women

"O Prophet! Tell your wives, daughters and the believing woman that they should draw their outer garments (hijab), over their persons (when in public). That is more proper that they should be recognized (as decent women) and not molested." [33:59]

When should Muslims be dressed best?

"O cildren of Adam! Wear your beautiful apparel at every time and place of prayer." [7:31]


ISLAMIC DRESS : An Identity, not a uniform!

Islam, being a universal religion, has not set any particular form or style of dress. All manner of dress is acceptable as long as certain guidelines are followed. These guidelines apply to both men and women.

WHAT TO COVER?

Islamic dress must cover the 'aurah. 'Aurah is the parts of the body which cannot be exposed to others. Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) defined 'aurah.

'Aurah is different for men and women.

A man's 'aurah extends from his navel to his knees. Most men choose to cover more than this minimum requirement. A woman's 'aurah outside her home and/or in the presence of non-mahram (not close relatives) men is her whole body except her face, hands and feet. Some scholars also include her feet. The head covering or hijab is a command of Allah. The face-veil or niqab is not a requirement, but some Muslim women choose to wear it for greater modesty, out of conviction that Islam requires it, or because of cultural tradition.

Muslim women are not permitted to cover their faces during prayer, while performing the pilgrimage rites in Mecca, when giving legal testimony, or when identification is crucial for security purposes. In her home, Muslim women may uncover their heads, arms, feet and legs below the knees. And in privacy with her husband, no part of her needs to be covered.

HOW TO COVER?

The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) admonished:
" Do not appear naked while fully clothed."[Bukhari]

Dress should not be transparent, showing the skin or so tight-fitting that it reveals the shape and sexual contours of the body. Loose-fitting clothes make prayer easier to perform.Dress should not be so outlandish or glamorous that it is provocative. However, Muslims may be as provocatively dressed (or undressed) as they like when they are with their spouses in private.

GENDER-APPROPRIATE

Men are not allowed to dress (and behave) like women, or as women. They are forbidden to wear pure silk and gold. Muslim men must be manly!

Likewise, women should not imitate men in dress (and behaviour too). Muslim women are feminine. Islam sets distinct and complementary roles for men and women in harmony with the natural disposition of goodness (fitrah) that Allah created them with.

Gender-appropriate dressing helps men and women fulfill their roles better.

MEN IN WHITE, WOMEN IN BLACK

In Islam, there is no "holy" colours. Islam does not require women to be always dressed in black or blue in public. This is cultural tradition practiced in some Muslim countries, or a rule imposed by certain Muslims authorities so as to enforce greater morality. Darker colours are worn because they conceal better.

Muslim men need not always wear white. The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) wore clothes of various colours. However he recommended that white clothes be worn on Fridays and other assemblies.

"The purity and simple beauty of white befits the honour and dignity of man" [An Nasa'i]

The Prophet (pbuh) also grew a beard and often wore a turban on his head. Muslim men, out of their love for the Prophet, emulate him not only in character and conduct but also in dress and grooming.


HUMILITY AND THANKFULNESS

The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said : “Allah likes to see the signs of His bounties on His servants. “ [Tirmidhi]

He also said: “ Eat, drink, wear clothes, and give charity without extravagance and conceit.” [Bukhari]

Allah has not forbidden fine clothes, unless worn in arrogance and wastefulness. Allah’s bounty should not be flaunted lest it provokes envy and ill-feeling. Humility before The Creator and fellow human beings is a virtue. It’s difficult to be humble when one is decked in thousand dollar suits! However, Allah also dislikes slovenliness as a pretentious show of one’s poverty. Moderation and simplicity is always the preferred way.

THE LIBERATED MUSLIM WOMAN (AND MAN)

Islamic dress does not degrade or oppress women. Rather, it gives them dignity because it protects them from exploitation as sexual objects, and enslavement by the fashion, cosmetics, film and advertising industries. Dignity and protection, together with many rights that Islam grants women (which modern world has recognized only in the last 60 years) guarantees the high status of women in Islam. The incorrect practice of Islam in many Muslim countries does not represent TRUE ISLAM. Regrettably, the movie industry has now begun to blatantly exploit male sexuality. Islamic dress also preserves men’s dignity.


THE MUSLIM IDENTITY

Muslim men and women who dress as Allah commands them present an image of dignity, modesty and morality. This is the Muslim identity, unmistakably recognized anywhere in the world. Obey Allah and be loved by Him!

By: Fatima Ebrahim Munshi

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HAPPY FATHER'S DAY DADDY!:D

a little girl needs u dad,
for many, many things;
like holding her high off the ground
where the sunlight sings!
like being the deep music
that tells her all is right
when she awakens frantic with
the terrors of the night.

like being the great mountain
that rises in her heart
and shows her how she might get home
when all else falls apart.

like giving her the love
that is her sea and air,
so diving deep or soaring high
she'll always find him there.

Daddy, I love you for all that you do.
I'll kiss you and hug you because you love me too!tehee~
Thanx for everything dad!

~me love u~
ur little girl!hehe

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open ur eyes,open ur heart,let's start question in ourselves

Tika hati kecil ini mengeluh Ya Allah ilmu-Mu tersangatlah luas, sedang aku ini hanya insan kerdil yang tidak kental, mengeluh pada-Mu sehari-hari, meminta-minta pada-Mu. Ketika aku merintih pada-Mu dengan bisikan hati kecil ini Ya Allah Kau permudahkanlah segala urusanku, Kau berikanlah aku kejayaan yang cemerlang di dunia dan akhirat dan jadikanlah aku hamba yang sentiasa mengingati-Mu ketika susah dan senang. Someone told me that "ketika bersujud mintalah pada-Nya, mintalah pada-Nya kerana ketika itulah Allah sangat dekat dengan kita." Barangkali ketika aku sujud mengadu pada-Mu, Ya Allah Kau berikanlah aku kekuatan agar terus berusaha, kabulkan perminaanku Dia mendengar-Nya!Subhanallah.. So, mengadulah pada Dia, Dia pasti tidak mengecewakan, tidak pula bergosip dan tidak pula berdusta! Ya Allah Kau jadikanlah aku hamba yang bersyukur, yang mengingati-Mu ketika susah dan senang. Alhamdulillah!


Hadis Sahih Bukhari Jilid 2. Hadis Nombor 0588.
Dari Mughirah bin Syuabah r.a., katanya: "Apabila Nabi saw. berdiri melakukan solat, beliau berdiri lama sekali sehingga bengkak tumit atau betis beliau. Lalu beliau ditanya orang mengenai hal itu. Jawab beliau, "Apakah aku tidak boleh menjadi seorang hamba yang banyak syukur?"

Let’s start question in ourselves
Isn’t this proof enough for us
Or are we so blind
To push it all aside..
No..

We just have to
Open our eyes, our hearts, and minds
If we just look bright to see the signs
We can’t keep hiding from the truth
Let it take us by surprise
Take us in the best way
(Allah..)
Guide us every single day..
(Allah..)
Keep us close to You
Until the end of time..

Look inside yourselves
Such a perfect order
Hiding in yourselves
Running in your veins
What about anger love and pain
And all the things you’re feeling
Can you touch them with your hand?
So are they really there?

Lets start question in ourselves
Isn’t this proof enough for us?
Or are we so blind
To push it all aside..?
No..

We just have to
Open our eyes, our hearts, and minds
If we just look bright to see the signs
We can’t keep hiding from the truth
Let it take us by surprise
Take us in the best way
(Allah..)
Guide us every single day..
(Allah..)
Keep us close to You
Until the end of time..

When a baby’s born
So helpless and weak
And you’re watching him growing..
So why deny
Whats in front of your eyes
The biggest miracle of life..

We just have to
Open our eyes, our hearts, and minds
If we just look quiet we’ll see the signs
We can’t keep hiding from the truth
Let it take us by surprise
Take us in the best way
(Allah..)
Guide us every single day..
(Allah..)
Keep us close to You
Until the end of time..

Open your eyes and hearts and minds
If you just look bright to see the signs
We can’t keep hiding from the truth
Let it take us by surprise
Take us in the best way
(Allah..)
Guide us every single day..
(Allah..)
Keep us close to You
Until the end of time..

Allah..
You created everything
We belong to You
Ya Robb we raise our hands
Forever we thank You..
Alhamdulillah..

Artist: Maher Zain
Album: Thank You Allah

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kompas cinta


Title entry kali pertama di kala cuti sem ini dipetik dari sebuah buku yang telah saya baca. Buku tersebut sangat sesuai dijadikan bahan bacaan oleh para remaja mahu pun golongan dewasa yang sedang tercari-cari apakah itu cinta?
Dalam konteks cinta actually ramai orang yang telah 'mengecilkan' skop cinta itu sendiri. Buka mata, buka minda, silalah melangkah ke hadapan! Wahyu diturunkan menyuruh kita membaca. Ilmu tidak semstinya diperoleh melalui kaedah formal. Remaja jejadang terlalu asyik dan 'mabuk" untuk menjadi lebih rasional apabila membicarakan soal cinta. Saya akui cinta itu memang soal emosi(perasaan) tetapi kita tidak boleh terlalu emotional apabila bercakap tentangnya. Kembalilah mempertajamkan minda dan memurnikan jiwa untuk berpijak di bumi yang nyata.
Barangkali memang setiap yang enak dan indah itu memabukkan bukan?Apatah lagi jika diteguk keterlaluan. Begitulah dengan cinta. Bila mabuk yang dilihat hanya yang indah2 sahaja. Kalau ditanya kepada kanak2 sekolah rendah mungkin mereka tidak faham erti cinta. Jika ditanya kepada remaja belasan tahun barangkali cinta itu 'couple' jawab mereka. Justeru jangan terlalu berfikiran jumud sehingga skop CINTA itu dilihat terlalu kecil.
CINTA umpama hadiah daripada Allah. Kita gembira dan suka menerima hadiah. Namun, wajarkah hadiah lebih dicintai daripada PEMBERI hadiah? Maka, tepuk dada, tanya iman di dalam jiwa.Cinta itu suci maka jangan dikotori dengan hawa nafsu. Astaghfirullah~Imagine sehelai kain putih yang dikotori dengan tompok2 kecil berwarna hitam. Cantikkah ia?Hurm~
Siapakah dan apakah yang terbayang apabila kita bercakap soal cinta? Romeo & Juliet?Mark Anthony & Cleopatra? Lalu terbayang pula pertemuan asyik mah syuk, derita cinta, tinggal saudara dan pelbagai lagi pengorbanan cinta! Itulah 'story board' yang tergambar dalam mind-set kita bila menyebut soal cinta.Titanic yang tenggelam itu diagung2kan.
Lalu bagaimana bercinta dalam Islam?Kabur mungkin? Jarang sekali disebut kisah NAbi Yusuf & Zulaikha, Nabi Sulaiman & Balqis. Tetapi jika hanya dengan menyebut nama tahukah kita prinsip & pendekatannya? Apakah sama erti 'rindu' para salafussoleh dengan 'rindu' yang disebut dalam cinta kita?
Bagaimana pula bercinta secara Islam? Apakah ia praktik dilaksanakan pada masa kini?Bercinta memang tidak salah justeru ia adalah fitrah tabi'e yang Allah kurniakan kepada setiap manusia. Inging cinta dan dicintai adalah instinct(naluri) setiap manusia. Oleh kerana cinta itu fitrah maka tentulah tidak salah untuk merasai dan menikmatinya. Jika salah masakan Tuhan mengurniakan rasa cinta? Allah Maha Mengetahui, Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang, dikurniakan-Nya rasa cinta pasti ada maksud dan tujuan.
Namun Allah tidak kurniakan rasa cinta secara polos begitu sahaja. Justeru Dia ciptakan peraturan cinta demmi menjaga kemurniannya. Namun peraturan inilah yang kerap dilanggar. Rasa cinta tidak salah tetpi kesalahan itu berlaku ketika menjalinkan hubungan cinta. Peraturan perlu ada kerana Allah cintakan manusia! ALlah inginkan keselamatan & kesejahteraan buat manusia untuk memenuhi keinginan fitrah tebienya.

Ya Allah Kau teguhkanlah imanku, janganlah Kau bolak-balikkan hatiku. Ya Allah YA Tuhanku aku ini lemah makau Kau kuatkanlah, aku ini hina maka Kau tingkatkanlah darjatku, aku ini maka kau kayanlah aku, ampunilah aku.

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